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| Leadership in Business |
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Colin Turner is a successful entrepreneur, author, speaker and business advisor. His book examines a spiritual approach to business and leadership. |
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Emotions (Sustained) |
Speak sparingly.
Listen.
Be empty have no resistance.
Bend like a reed - be flexible.
Be enthusiastic.
Keep things simple.
Be there and available to others.
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Optimism, enthusiasm, motivation, determination and being centred. |
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Emotions (Transitory) |
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Curiosity. |
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Strategy A (test for beliefs & values satisified) |
The feeling of being relaxed that comes from being in flow.
The feeling of being energised.
Being aware of what's happening around you using both eyes and ears.
Being comfortable and congruent with silence.
Being in love with what you do.
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Follow intuition. Be extravagant with potential. Operate from an abundance mentality. |
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Strategy B (test not quite satisified) |
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Make sure you are SOMing not SWOTing.
Become aware by standing outside yourself.
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Strategy C (test not at all satisified) |
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Change is needed.
Trust and expect the solution at the right time.
Make sure outcomes are in harmony with values. |
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| Enabling beliefs and values |
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Being enthusiastic.
Having the right motives before making the right moves.
Being a non-conformist and maintaining individuality.
Having determination, discipline and intent.
Always contributing more than required.
Being open, relaxed and confident. |
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Beliefs & Values About The Ability |
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| Beliefs and values about the ability |
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Definition of beliefs and values |
Quality of life is reflected in our relationships and our relationships create an environment for growth.
Seeing others Strengths, Opportunities and Merits (SOM).
Developing relationships regardless of outcome. |
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No-one is in our lives by accident everything has a lesson attached.
Our lives are given value by our relationships.
Meanings are not found in words but in people.
Provide unconditional service to others and make them feel worthy.
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| Core beliefs and values |
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Supporting beliefs |
Fulfilling our purpose and teaching it to others.
Achieving a state of flow which is Free Will and Divine Will working together.
Knowing the part we play in the symphony of life and being in harmony with our purpose. |
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If it's truly necessary then it is possible.
Advice is worth nothing unless paid for.
Thoughts are the architects of the material world - attitude is the builder.
You are an integral part of the Universe.
You already have the solution to the problem. |
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| Additional Comments |
Success:
Acknowledge obstacles as a way of building strengths rather than an indication of failure. Problems are opportunities to reach even higher levels of awareness. Be aware of strengths before weaknesses - do more of what you are good at. Look for the positive in others - find good models. The secret is knowing that the process works - use others' success as confirmation. Have infinite patience - no timetable - no failure. Conformists are made not born. Be spontaneous - you will get to where you want to go. Be enthusiastic you can only be optimistic in this state, optimism is recognised by others and is natural and attractive. Be honest. Don't complain. Don't explain. Keep it simple. Make people feel valued.
Communication:
Trust needs to be communicated first. Where trust is high you can communicate without words. Listen before speaking. To listen fully we must be ourselves. We can't communicate more than we are. We learn more from silence than from speech. Weigh words on the scales of the heart before they come to the mouth.
Manifestation:
What you desire you have the capability to create. Align your thinking, feeling and behaviour. Think only about your desire - this is the natural course to obtaining it. Desire everything - need nothing. Intention is desire without attachment. Have your attention in the present and your intention for the future will manifest. Forget it to get it. There are an infinite number of ways your desires can manifest. Acknowledge your own power. You are attracting what already exists in another dimension.. The Universe is your extended body.
Personal Mission:
You are born with the talents to achieve it. The way to serve God is serve ourselves. Overcome the wall that thinking has created. Do not apologise for following your path. We are all attached to a divine plan but you have the Free Will to do something different. Look for a growing sense of familiarity and you will know that you are heading for home. Be in love with the meaning of life. Be optimistic - we are the ultimate representation of God on earth. |
