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| The Healing Spirit |
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Coaching and mentoring my clients. |
| External Behaviour |
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Emotions (Sustained) |
My voice tone moves from instructive to gentle.
I am tactile.
I am aware of my breathing and the breathing of the other person.
My face softens, there is a change around my eyes and a watering of my eyes.
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Calmness, congruence, rapport, curiousity, compassion, tenderness and awareness. |
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Emotions (Transitory) |
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Fatigue, interest, acceptance of myself and the other person, frustration, self castigation. Joy, pride, wonder that have been given the opportunity to fullfil the completion of healing. |
| Test for values and beliefs |
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Strategy A (test for beliefs & values satisified) |
A feeling of peace which feels like a rod going through the centre of my body extending from my head, through my stomach to my toes.
It's a flexible rod.
The rod directs a low hum which I can hear and feel as a tingling sensation all over my body.
A voice is saying to me "you have the ability to help" I believe this is the voice of God and sounds like the voice of my Grandfather.
A feeling comes up from my solar plexus which envelopes me and I become part of something that is bigger. This feeling guides me in what I am doing.
I know when my client is not ready to move forward, there is physical cut off, I feel them shut down - there is a silence in the hum (see Strategy C)
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I physically move closer to my client the intention being to join their aura.
I open myself to divine guidance by praying.
Consciously and unconsciously I am opening myself to communication.
I accept I am an instrument.
I internally verbalise, "okay, I am here, what do I do?"
Mentally I am taking them in my arms to comfort them.
I use metaphor a tremendous amount.
I use mirroring and matching.
I use parts integration.
I use reframing. |
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Strategy B (test not quite satisified) |
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There is no strategy for "test not quite satisfied". I know when my client is ready to move on and when they are not.
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Strategy C (test not at all satisified) |
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I move back to polite conversation.
I leave the door open for them to come back to me. |
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| Enabling beliefs and values |
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I have faith I have been given this ability.
I have trust I have been given this ability.
I am honest with my clients about my ability to help them or not help them.
I believe everyone is a hurt child and their cry for help is a cry for their mother to heal it.
I accept there is a power and knowledge which I don't have to question. |
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Beliefs & Values About The Ability |
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| Beliefs and values about the ability |
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Definition of beliefs and values |
I trust I should be with this person.
I believe I am capable of helping this person.
I have the knowledge to help this person.
I am the saviour of this person. |
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I have the compassion and the abilty which comes from my heart to help my client.
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| Core beliefs and values |
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Supporting beliefs |
There is hope for a life better for my client.
I believe they would not have come to me if I were not deemed to help them.
I am a great knowledge seeker.
We already have the knowledge we just have to find a way to access it.
I believe we all come from God and we are part of God.
I believe we are all one.
I believe we all doing God's work.
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All business problems are a health issues.
If you are not healthy within your own spirit you are not going to put the right influence into a group. |
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| Additional Comments |
If you have a healthy mind you have a healthy body.
Communication is a form of mentoring.
We have many opportunities to pass on our wisdom to other people
When I feel I am in control of the siutation I feel I have made a connection with the other person. It could be a connection with their recognised or unrecognised spirit. Sometimes this is a mutual recognition.
I find that every experience that is presented to me I have already experienced in a similar form. |
